The Things I Cannot Change

  «I am the daughter of the 4th oldest born...I love this film I can watch it over and over to see my aunt uncle and mom when they where little.I love seeing my grandparents i miss them very so much <3 :-( »

  «These are my grandparents :) This video is very sad to watch. I don't remember my Grandfather , but I know he was an amazing guy and a good cook :)My grandmother in this video passed away not to long ago .. she was a really great person and I miss her a lot , I still see all my aunts and uncles but not much since they live far from me ... This video mean's so much to me and I love watching it and seeing my great family <3»

  «i am the son of 1 of the kids i this movie and i want to no where to find the courage to change i really want to no the history of my family and i cant find it anywhere»

  «This couple have such a love and respect for each other. This man loves his family so much, is so patient with the children no matter what is going on in his life. I hope that he and his wife found some relief, some joy for themselves and their children. They have such dignity and integrity within the difficulties of their lives and celebrate the new baby, even though it means more pressure to provide. Blessings to all of the children and their children forever. »

  «Someone please tell me where i can find the second video to this, The Courage to Change?»

  «I am the granddaughter of Kenny's sister. I do not know my Great Uncles children. My understanding is that this film has been a painful smear for our families for many years and, in ways, continues to be. Never having known of the film, I came across it at age 19 on television. It was a shock. My heart goes out to my kin as they age with this film in their past, created without their control or consent...Im sure it has been an extremely heavy and, at times, painful burden. »

  «Amazing to see this film again after so many years. We watched it at school around 1971 when I would have 11. It was enough to keep me from wanting to have children. Such utter misery. Some of the comments express pity for the father. I just felt sorry, scared and horrified for the children that were born to this poor ignorant couple who didn't equate too many children with poverty. Tragic.»

  «wow this was sad to watch you can look in the husbands eyes of how much he wants to support his family and cant and while tryin to make a little living some jerk refused to pay him and winds up beatin him up, it was clear to see he was the victim all he wanted was his $6. It was not fair how all these witness was there and that criminal got away with beatin the poor man. It seems like history is still in our present cus people are still gettin wrongly accuse of crimes that they didnt commit.»

  «I am the 11th child born and was in the second movie "the Courage to Change". »

  «This film is about my family. I'm the 10th child being born. »

  «Yes - the sequel was called Courage to Change.»

  «Wasn't there a sequel made? it is an excellent doc , one of the best!»

  «This is so sad how these people lived in Montreal back 1967. I was 11 yrs old when this took place and recall we went to Expo 67 that year. I am guessing this family never even went to Expo 67. Makes me want to cry! Poverty is a cancer in soceity»